Wednesday, June 26, 2024

9 steps to be happy and successful



  • Be grateful - every day - Be strong as a lion when you wake up in the morning to serve -  Because if waking up is the hardest thing you will do , the rest of the day should be a piece of cake!  מוֹדֶהאֲנִי לְפָנֶיךָ מֶלֶךְ חַי וְקַיָּםשֶׁהֶחֱזַרְתָּ בִּי נִשְׁמָתִי בְּחֶמְלָהרַבָּה אֱמוּנָתֶךָ. Modeh anee lefanecha melech chai vekayam, she-he-chezarta bee nishmatee b’chemla, raba emunatecha. - I offer thanks to You, living and eternal King, for You have mercifully restored my soul within me; Your faithfulness is great.
  • Be positive - before thinking or saying something negative or complaining - think of something positive about that thing or person 
  • Manifest what you want 
  • Dream big and follow your dream - take action with vision within your value system - make a plan - and Life will bring you opportunities that will exceed your wildest expectations!
  • Care - turn competition to contribution and care - show people you care and you will win their hearts - people don’t care how much you know - before they know how much you care 
  • Research do your research on what and who has been successful before 
  • Systems - follow the recipe - trust the systems and processes of what has been done before process - maybe what you don’t really want is what you need  - but be sure to try new things and innovate 
  • Innovate and continue to learn , innovate , try new things and make this people and things around you better 
  • Focus, think, enjoy - to - be do have - not necessarily in that order  


So - Be grateful , dream big, and act (with care and humility) with a vision and a plan - to “be do and have” more than you thought possible !!!


Ivan Kaye 

Friday, June 7, 2024

The immutable 15 laws of the IK doctrine

Going away for a short break - and having 5 hours on a plane - for me - is a great time to look back, look forward, realign . 




Below are 15 immutable Laws or Insights  that have been taught to me by my mentors, experiences, colleagues , family and friends over the years !! 

Law 1 -  “The more you give the more you get!”

“it’s all about your customer” and how you make your customer feel. 


“People don’t care how much you know - until they know how much you care !!”


Robyn Kaye 

Mark Champley 


Law 2 - “if it don’t  flow - let it go” - let it go” 



go for the ride - a wave will happen with or  without you - ride the wave .


In South Africa , India and China - when the lower class was moving to a middle class - it was an amazing wave to watch 


Masses - will create wave - fighting against it is like pushing shot uphill - until you gain traction.


3  questions come to mind  


  1. How do you  get flow and create that wave ? 
  2. How do you get The power of 10 - 10X 
  3. How do you  gain traction - and get flow 

  •  Believe you are doing the right things and not just “things right”
  • get advocates - followers that believe - others will come
  •  if you are persistent 
  • lots of energy needed
  • continuity, consistency and persistency 
  • Doing something that has been done before - like ducks migrating - arrow - people follow each other 
  • Running un groups 
  • Mass creates energy 


Law 3 - “where your energy does go - so it will grow “




You can control where  you place your effort and where you place your energy - and where you do that so will that grow and flourish! 


Law 4 - luv what you do . 

Don’t be a martyr - and do what you don’t like - life is to short - find the wave that fits with your values/beliefs / energy/aura …..don’t be afraid to fail and start again … if you feel that it’s right - it’s right!!!


Law 5 - the law of the mirror 

 “Life is like a mirror - people around you will adapt to how you feel - adapt to your energy and adapt to your wave length “


  I f you feel successful so you will be - and those around you will be 

  • if you feel miserable  so you will be - and those around you will be 
  • if you feel happy   so you will be - and those around you will be 
  • If you feel like a winner - people will see you as a winner 
  • You choose your team 
  • You chose your attitude - and your attitude and aptitude will determine your altitude 
  • What you say about people is a Reflection of you - what people say about you - is a reflection of them 


People will be attracted to those that they want to feel like 


Law 6 - “practice practice practice” 

the more you do - the better you will become. Be the “college of knowledge” “the subject matter expert” “the go to person”


Law 7  - “ be the centre of influence” 

of your target market - be the “college of knowledge” be the subject matter expert - go to person - for the person people who you want to serve - your customer

Here are some of my tricks :)




Law 8 - systems are key to exponential growth - ai , automation etc 


“what got you to $1m won’t get you to $10m - “what got you to $10m won’t get you to $100m -  systems are key to growth - build the systems that align with riding the wave - not with changing the wave . Change - you won’t change the wave - you will change where you are in connection with the wave 


10X

Law 9 - it’s not about the people - it’s about the right people 


Surround yourself with the “right people”


 it’s not about people - it’s about the “right people” around you - if you are the smartest person in the room - find another room - find a mentor - you become what the people around you are 


Allen Pathmarajah 

Law 10 - life long learning 


It’s all a work in progress - as long as you breath - you haven’t yet finished your mission 


Kala Philip 


Law 11 - “it’s just a fuckin rock” 

 don’t fret about “owning things” or “owning places”


 you are just here for a short time - and then you are gone 


you are leaving a legacy for the way it makes you feel - you are not doing it for anyone else - no-one else . 


You are just a tenant on this planet 🌎 


Look after it , respect it - it’s not yours 


It’s all about the stories that you weave and listen to and a learn from - it’s about the software - the neurals - not the thing 


“It’s not about the thing” 


- it about how the thing makes you feel”


 - what else can trigger that feeling ?


Kate Engler 

Herman Gyr

Global Client Action Forum www.gc-af.com

Yuval Noah Herari ! 



Law 12  - what you dream - you will manifest  


Law 13 - vision with action - with the right values - on the right wave - with the right people l👶🏼🤷🏻‍♀️💃🙋🏾‍♀️🙋‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️🧟‍♀️👯👩‍❤️‍👨🕺🧞‍♂️👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 on the right bus 🚌 will get you where you want to go ….


  • How do you ride that wave 
  • the tools , the people around you
  • Have a  destination in nind - although it will invariably be a different destination where you will end up - that’s ok .


Make sure you are moving forward !!! 


Law 14 - use the best tools 🧰  💻  📱 💰 💵that are available . 


Social networks , ai , databases, apps , drills …. Automation is good - ride the wave 


Law 15 - care for your team team - and be aware how you make them feel

 it’s all about family  and friends 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦👨‍👨‍👦🪢 


be sure to continually praise them for there effort to do good - and celebrate wins 


People don’t care how much you know - until they know how much you care !!


As my wife, Robyn says …. Ivan - do what you say!!!

Continuous Sales prospecting is key to success


Another great article - packed with insights from my friend Rana Kordahi

It’s not instant !

When it comes to prospecting and filling a sales pipeline, the biggest problem I often see, is that salespeople want instant results.

They might make hundreds of sales calls, and send out lots of emails, but because they are not getting immediate results, they say that it’s not working. 

Continuity is key!!

Many times, they give up after a few days. Or slow down their sales activities.

However, the sales and marketing activities that we do in a 30 day period, usually compounds over a 90 day period. 

Because customers usually take a while to know, like, and trust you and your brand. Or, they are not ready to buy at the point of contact. It's important to use our prospecting calls to also:
  1.  Create curiosity and awareness
  2. Start the conversation.
  3. Create a touchpoint to follow up
  4. Gather information.

What are some of your insights?

What are some small and large prospecting habits that you’re creating today, that will reap results in the future?

#thesellingacademy #prospecting #sales #b2bsales #salespipeline