Referron Live Breakout Room 20 minute Process

16 gems from Ivan Misner - founder of BNI - arguably the most successful networker on the planet

Networking can quietly outperform almost any ad campaign but only if you approach it with structure, intention, and consistency. Dr. Ivan Misner, founder and Chief Visionary Officer of BNI, share his gems with podcaster, Robert Plank

BNI is the world’s largest business networking organization.

BNI is a system for  turning casual connections into a reliable pipeline of high-quality leads. 

BNI and  networking is not about showing up and pitching everyone in the room.

Ivan Misner shares 16 gems to be truly successful at what you do 

• You need to become referrable and teach others exactly how to refer to you. 
• You need to make it super easy and fun for people to do this 
• You need to follow up those referrals and provide a brilliant service as you have a huge responsibility to your referrer . They have given you their most important asset - their reputation 
• You need to connect continuously 
• You need to contribute first - givers gain and the law of reciprocation 
• 8 hours per week of networking can produce 60–70% (or more) of your business
• It takes 23 touch-points to build trust and get a customer to engage -  use thank-you notes,  one-on-ones, and make warm introductions  to people  you know like and trust as part of a deliberate referral system instead of random busyness.
• Listening is key - listening more than they talk. Ask a simple  question and listen.  People like to talk about themselves It is interesting to understand the  mindset and habits of a successful networker or connector - many are not extroverts 
• Gpwtwaywgwyw - give people what they want and you will get what you want . In my experience - there is not hung better in business than a warm introductions 
• ASK - people love to give . It makes them feel great
• Networking and building a network of advocates  is a marathon, not a sprint. If you stay consistent long enough people will get  to truly know, like, and trust you. 
• Make it simple , fun and easy 
• Stop pushing shit uphill - be in the flow - Ivan talks about  introduces working in your “flame” instead of your “wax” so you stay energized and effective as your business grows. 
• Understand why you do what you do , be able to articulate your mission (ours is to help you create your generational legacy so we can achieve ours) 
• Know and  live your values, (ours are treat) team first, respect, energise and enthuse , adventure (go outside your comfort zone) and you need to have trust 
• Make sure your life’s “summing up” reflects the impact you actually want to have.

I am really looking forward to meet with Ivan Misner at the BNI Global Conference in Monaco in  October. Referron is sponsoring the VIP room and will be gifting Referron nfp cards and nfp keyrings to the delegates - so they can share their Referron business cards with a tap of their card! 

From Force to Flow — from pushing shit uphill to guiding a boulder easily downhill :)

WHAT IF THE PROBLEM ISN’T DISCIPLINE — BUT THE STORY WE KEEP TELLING OURSELVES?

Last week I was smashing it.

Eating well.

Going to the gym.

Working with my personal trainer.

Doing the mindset work.

My ABS & APPS program was working!

Then came the weekend…

Chocolate. Carbs. Meat. More chocolate. 😂

And suddenly I found myself slipping straight back into old habits.

It got me thinking:

Why do I do this?

I can have the right plan, the right knowledge, the right coach and the best intentions…

And still fall back into old patterns.

Maybe the question isn’t:

“What’s wrong with me?”

Maybe it’s:

“How do I make the behaviour I WANT easier and more automatic than the behaviour I DON’T want?”

And then I realised…

The same thing applies to Referron.

For years, part of my internal story has been:

Referron is hard.

Networking is hard.

Referral marketing is hard.

Building technology is hard.

Finding the right people is hard.

It sometimes feels like we’re pushing a bloody big boulder uphill.

But the evidence tells me something completely different.

I’ve kept showing up.

I’ve built tens of thousands of connections.

I’ve created content consistently.

I’ve connected with thousands of people through Referron.

I’ve made and received thousands of referrals and introductions.

And I’ve built businesses through the power of relationships.

So maybe it’s time to change the story.

Not by pretending success suddenly requires no work.

But by changing the system:

Make the right actions easier.

Remove friction.

Repeat what works.

Surround yourself with the right people.

Let momentum compound.

That’s the mindset I’m taking into the next phase of Referron.

Hard → Simple.

Heavy → Light.

Force → Flow.

Cold leads → Warm introductions.

Contacts → Community.

And maybe that’s the lesson for my ABS as well! 😂

Stop fighting yourself.

Build the system.

Create the habits.

Do more of what works.

And let momentum become your friend.

Easy. Fun. Consistent.

In business and in life.

thanks to my mindset coaches Princess Christina And Skye - for the guidance and #bondibenji for helping me get fit!!

What story are YOU telling yourself that’s making something harder than it needs to be?

If you’re up for the challenge - join me - comment “IM IN 🚀” in the comments below

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